PromptVaultFind the mechanism behind the same recurring fight
For couples or family members testing causes before trying another communication fix.
Works with
- Meta AI
- Claude
- DeepSeek
The prompt300 words · 3 blanks
What you fill in
- Conflict transcript
[fight_transcript]ExampleA: You said you would be home at seven. B: I said around seven... - What happened afterward
[aftermath_notes]ExampleThey stopped speaking until the next morning, then resumed logistics without discussing it - Known constraints
[known_constraints]ExampleOne person works unpredictable shifts; discussions after 10 p.m. usually escalate
How to use it
- 1Open it in PromptVault. Find it in Relationships, or search for “Find the mechanism behind the same recurring fight”.
- 2Fill in the 3 blanks. conflict transcript, what happened afterward and known constraints — the only things the prompt cannot know.
- 3Copy and paste it into Claude. It also works with Meta AI and DeepSeek.
About this prompt
“Find the mechanism behind the same recurring fight” is a advanced relationships prompt. For couples or family members testing causes before trying another communication fix. It is 300 words long and written to get a usable answer on the first message, in Meta AI, Claude and DeepSeek or any other chat assistant. Good for: troubleshooting, conflict repair, deep dive and communication. Like every prompt in PromptVault, it was written and edited in-house, and it works offline once the app is installed.
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